importance and caring

It is interesting how people remember horrible things for a long time, inspite their knowledge of negative effect of the memory on their life and day to day activities.
The more important something is for you the more difficult for you to get over it.
From my expereince of mingling into different cultures, it's very interesting how people decide something is important for them .

Westeners could get over certain things very fast, but will not forget about other things which are important for them,
I think in the list of westners forgetable things there are some very important emotional things.
Sometime when they forget about those too much , it makes them soulless*.
Afghans could much more easier get over certain things, but can't forget about others. The prolongation of war and conflict is perhaps because they can't forget about certain things, like a friend of them died in war and he roughly knows who killed him. He want to retaliate because he can't forget about it.

The more less things you have to care about, the more simple and painless* your life would be; also the more unimportant things you care about the more painless and simple life you would have.

Westeners have a relatively short list of things they care about.
INTERESTINGLY some important things for some people could mean nothing for others.
It's not wise to freak out when you think some one is not doing something important right. Because importance and righthood could vary.

Two friends were talking to each other the first said "wise people are not certain about things while idiots insist they know how things work."
Second friend " are you sure about this theory"
First friend " hundred percent"

*pain is not necessarily something bad, some people enjoy certain kinds of pain, at least a lot of Afghan do.
*defination of soulless.
*what are things Afghans Care about, what are things westerns care about, what are some interesting things other cultures care about?

violence

Is Violence a need or a mistake? violence comes to existance when people mishandle or can't handle a conflict. However, as time pass violence transforms to a habit.

Every event has an infinit number of causes

Every event has an infinit number of causes why would people choose one instead of another? Which one would they choose?
1. The one they are sure about the cause, and have facts and has done expermints; e.g. earthquick happens as a result of tectonic movement of earth layer.

2. Human being when don't have enough information by default chooses the one which sound like more fun. E.g indian would say earthquake happens because earth is on a cow horn and the cow moves harder sometime. People don't want to see and understand what's going on, they want to see what they want to see and understand going on

july 28

با آمرین رادیو های مستقل در مورد ایجاد رادیو های تازه ، ستراتیژ و پیشرفت کار صحبت میکردم که یک بار محراج الدین آمر رادیو قره باغ داخل صحبت ام شد و گفت : "مشکلات رادیو های موجوده چی میشود؟"
نگاهم را به هاشمی دوختم و او فهمید که میپرسم : قرار بود شما در باره این موضوع امروز صبح صحبت کنید. محراج فهمید و گفت "او در باره آن صحبت کردیم، میخواستم ببینم اگر باز هم میتوانیستیم صحبت کنیم"
مردم وقتی با آنها بشکل انفرادی معامله شود توقع های غیر معقول ندارند اما زمانی که کسانی با سرگذشت، موقف و دیدگاه های مشابع با هم یکجا شوند بسیار زرزری و بیمعنی میشوند.
همی گپه که گفتم دیروز بیادم آمد که آمر صاحب اداری با معاون صاحبه اداری و مسوؤل ترانسپورت اعتراضی نموده بودند ومیگفتند که اختیارات لازمه را ندارند و هم مداخلات شعبه مالی کارشان را مشکل نموده است.
1. داشتن یک وجه مشترک مردم را نزدیکتر میکند، بعضی اوقات این کاری خوب است اما بعضی اوقات نیست، بعضأ چون مردم فکر میکنند قوی هستند و با هم بودن سرگرمی است حتی به پیشنهاد های معقول نیز گوش نمیدهند.
2. وقتی مردم مشکلی داشتند آسانتر میشود ایشان را استعمال کرد. جمشید بخاطر جلب توجه دیگران به مشکلاتش چند نفر دیگر را استعمال نمود.